Serving Toledo and surrounding areas
We believe in celebrating LOVE
Weddings are a celebration of your love, and our officiants are committed to bringing you and your guests together in one of the most inspiring and rewarding moments of your lives. (Did we mention that we are also hopeless romantics?) To help ensure that you have the wedding of your dreams, we custom-design your ceremony to be personal and one-of-a-kind.
Experience makes the difference
We have all attended boring weddings where the officiant droned on while people fell asleep in their seats. Your wedding will be anything but boring when you work with Weddings for the Ages. Our officiants are all experienced writers, public speakers and some are even musicians who are able to blend a variety of skills together to make your wedding meaningful and engaging for both you and your guests.
With the experience of over 100 weddings, we know how to keep your guests engaged and entertained as we share how your love is incredible and unique.
Meet the Team
Weddings for the Ages officiants are ordained and licensed by the State of Ohio to legally solemnize marriages. We able to perform weddings in most other states, though travel and licensing costs may apply.
Atonn has attended more than a few weddings where people were snoozing in their seats before the final I dos had been said. Today, as a wedding officiant, he has made it his mission to help couples create custom-made ceremonies that bring people together in an inspiring and rewarding way. Atonn is an experienced writer, public speaker and musician. Add to that over 15 years of professional voice training, and you can rest assured that your ceremony will be engaging and meaningful for both you and your guests.
As the officiant of over 150 weddings, Atonn’s experience speaks for itself. From highly spiritual to completely non-religious, every ceremony is unique and designed to fit with each couple’s beliefs. If you are looking for an officiant to perform full, traditional ceremonies, elopements and everything in between, Atonn would love to help you take this next step in your life.
Carlyn has been a licensed wedding officiant in the State of Ohio since 2013. She has performed weddings for people of all walks of life, of all ages, and of all gender identities, with guest lists numbering from zero into the hundreds. She loves connecting with her clients and working closely with them to design exactly the right wedding to suit their unique personalities and visions. She specializes in secular ceremonies, though she is comfortable with all levels of spirituality and loves working with couples to find the right balance of spiritual and secular to suit their taste.
Carlyn and her spouse, Zann, got married twice, both times with Atonn (Weddings for the Ages owner) as the officiant—once in December of 2016, in their living room with only their cat as witness, and again during their wedding the following July. When they’re not playing Dungeons and Dragons with friends, Carlyn can often be found crocheting gigantic blankets and playing her viola with the Sylvania Community Orchestra. She can’t wait to meet you!
Dr. Howard "Ardy" Gonyer, PhD
Dr. Ardy Gonyer is a Bowling Green, Ohio native. Accustomed to public speaking, Dr. Gonyer can be found at his day job Monday through Friday in the office of student affairs at BGSU. When the workweek is over, Ardy doesn’t just kick up his heals and relax. Instead, he can be found officiating weddings for couples from all backgrounds and beliefs.
What excited Ardy the most about officiating for Weddings for the Ages is his passionate belief that all consenting adults should be able to marry whom they choose, in the manner they choose. As an officiant, he has the opportunity to help couples take their dream wedding and make it into a reality.
When he isn't working at the university or officiating weddings, Ardy hosts trivia at The Stone's Throw, enjoys playing golf, Settlers of Catan, and spending time with his lovely bride, Megan.
Biography coming soon.
Scott has been officiating weddings since 2017. He started by officiating his best friend's wedding, and then he was the officiant for his sister's wedding! At that point, he knew he wanted to do more weddings, so he joined Weddings for the Ages! Since then, Scott has found this to be one of the most fulfilling jobs he could have hoped for. As he says, “nothing is more rewarding than when you see the couple whose wedding you just did out on the dance floor for their first dance together. Seeing them so happy in the moment, and just knowing that you helped get them there is one of the better experiences of my life.”
Scott has been a Bowling Green townie for most of his life, attending St. Al's, then BGHS and BGSU. He developed a knack for theater and public speaking, frequently performing as a member of Shakespeare in the park during the summer and fall. Scott can talk your ear off about movies and shows, comics and books, and music of all varieties, so be careful not to get trapped in one of his stories! Scott loves meeting new people from all walks of life, and is never afraid to get up and speak in front of a crowd!
Dr. Patrick Vrooman grew up understanding the behind-the-scenes work that goes into planning the perfect wedding. Both of his parents made wedding cakes as a side business, and his father worked in the Catholic Church “marrying and burying folks” as a pastoral administrator.
In 2002, Dr. Pat began his work as a wedding officiant helping friends and family who wanted a more personal wedding experience. In addition to leading ceremonies, Dr. Pat also understands what it is like to be the groom planning a wedding ceremony. He and his wife, Amanda, wrote their own ceremony, choosing to mix tradition with their individual interests and passions. His ceremony was officiated by his wife’s uncle, and he recalls facing opposition from family members. “We wanted the wedding we wanted,” he said, echoing the words of many couples that he has wed.
Dr. Pat Vrooman